29 Sep Love That Endures In The Trump Era

I don't know a single person who isn't exhausted by our political crisis at the moment. Everyone I know (conservative, progressive, and moderate) hopes we live for a time when we won't feel the threat of nuclear war or racially-motivated violence every day. We are...

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09 Aug Meet My Fiancé

I first heard about Amanda Hite in the Fall of 2015. My friend Dave and I were scrolling through Instagram over lunch when he suddenly squealed, "Oh my gosh! I have an Insta-crush on this super hot lesbian named Amanda Hite and she just wrote...

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10 Mar What I’ve Been Up To And Into

I was on a panel at Calvin College earlier this week to talk about sexual orientation change efforts. The stories are heartbreaking and, sadly, they're about a movement that's still very much alive. Young people are still sent to Christian conversion organizations, and many churches...

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09 Feb Saints For The Rest Of Us

No one prepares you for the lows in life. We’re well-versed in stories of triumph over struggles, but no one taught us how to go on living when we’re lost. We become drifters in different seasons for different reasons, whether it’s the loss of a...

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